I will start with the idea that a person's poison is his own thoughts and actions. I know that this is a topic that you usually do not cover by confronting with your own life ideology.
I noticed that along with age, the emotional maturity is harder to get. People, places, visions and the permanent change is influencing a person's decision in being stable. And it is so difficult in achieving the state of mind that allows you to say: ''I feel accomplished''. The emotional acceptance knows no limits and people try to lie themselves about what they feel.
Self-disclosure is a sign that you need to start swimming in the ocean you were thrown in. And nobody said that this should be easy, however a positive attitude represents the great achievement that you can obtain with someone's help.
Trusting people comes more difficult. Friends can be self-centered, a man might want two things: ''to lay you down or rise you up''. '' Hate brings me to my knees, love gets me on my feet. What you feel doesn't matter in the end, it's what you do that makes you brave'', Andre Agassi noted. And feels so impossible to be brave in most of the situations, when the light from the end of the tunnel is not there and you are walking alone in the dark.
Capture the moment, little girl, take responsibility for your decisions as this will be your drawn line to let you know if you are growing personally and emotionally. The fear is just a blame of your mind being lazy in working things out along with you. Do not imprison yourself in a concept of defense or of promotion of your own past situations.
''Pain is inevitable. Suffering is optional'' (Anonymous), while you pursue happiness is what makes you different. Don't ask to be heard out without judgment, nurture love and ask for respect from self, then from others. Don't be afraid to express what you feel by thinking what others might say. You went through unpleasant feelings, it is time to stop being vulnerable and to load your ''weapons''.
Don't cry for the lost time, just take control because you have the freedom to grow your own emotional maturity. ''Express to let pass. Ventilate to detach. Share to let go''.
The bomb is ticking for emotional sincerity and you do not feel ready, as always. The Blame Game is over and ''To be thine own self be true' gained field and you better continue the battle.
Being stable is not leading only to financial situation, but to a state of mind where you are happy with yourself.
Stand up for yourself, grow up, choose to feel and choose to learn.
Looking forward to see how future life experiences will remodel you in comparison with your ego.
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